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Powering Through and Something's Gotta Give

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The dangers and pitfalls of the philosophy of powering through. Oh boy, do we power through in our country. Similar to last week's post, this one to a degree is also about the dangers of flying solo and not sharing what ails you with other's.  This post arose some from what I posted last week, a homily given by my husband on Sunday, and then a post I read in a Boston Marathon Facebook group that I am in. Too often in our society, we live by the idea of sucking it up and toughing it out and the worst part is we are teaching our young people to do the same. We need to teach our young people to share their lives....there is an epidemic of unhealthy behavior in college students and they are suffering. Whether we are pushing through a physical injury or pushing through mental/emotional difficulties, we are harming ourselves.  The idea that suffering needlessly is something to be proud of is a bit twisted and in the end, it usually leads to some type of trouble or injury. We think t...

Changing Paradigms and Growth

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We can change our opinions, views, thoughts, actions, values, looks. We can even change our brains to think in a new way that we never thought possible. It takes work and extreme openness and a lot of times a professional if we are seeking serious brain change. I noticed two changes in myself this week that I am especially happy to notice and am honestly in awe of.  What made me notice my change were two different posts on  Facebook actually.  One was the meme that says something like, pray for all those fighting battles they don't talk about or we don't know about....something to that effect.  It made me think about how I used to view that post because I first saw it a few years ago.  My pendulum has definitely swung.  I used to have the attitude that...yeah, here is to all the people who inwardly struggle and aren't talking about it or whining or asking for help or wanting attention or pity.  I was the classic Viking that Brene' Brown describes and I...

What am I doing? An introduction to my blog and me

I have been encouraged the last few weeks by a couple of different people to start a blog. So, here it is!! We shall see how this goes. I often have a lot of random thoughts that now I can share with readers without making Facebook posts that are too long☺❤In addition to that, I am... let us just say not a young person... and I have been working on myself hard the last couple of years.  I want people to learn about eating disorders and their prevalence and I hope to show the truth of these illnesses. In addition, I would like to create a page that is focused on overall mental wellness. As a nation, we are not doing very well at wellness. We are promoting "fit" in the name of thin and we still label healthy weight by an antiquated BMI chart. We need a big paradigm shift....from how we look to how we feel and we must learn the true measure of health. I have been in "recovery mode" from Anorexia for over two years now. I have had had this mental illness though for a mu...